Question: "Dear Maulana Ansari! A Christian lady-friend of mine who happens to be a missionary of the Roman Catholic Church has often preached to me about the beauties of her religion and has also tried to convince me that Islam is defective. She has often told me that Islam has degraded womanhood. Recently, she gave me some Christian literature on the position of woman in Islam, which has actually perturbed me. She has told me that the views contained in that literature are subscribed to by the scholars of other great religions also. Unfortunately, all my education has been western and 1 had very little opportunity of studying Islam. Plainly speaking, I am deeply interested in knowing the exact teachings of Islam concerning womanhood, because I am a woman myself, and I shall be very grateful if you can find time to discuss it in the pages of your esteemed journal, preferably throwing light at the same time on the teachings of other religions. I give below a few extracts from Christian writings for your edification:-
"The Koran degraded early Arabian
womanhood. The one great classic on the
subject by Dr. Perron is as convincing as it is exhaustive." (Femmes Arabes avant
et depuis l'Islamisme, 2 Vols., Paris).
"..... Any woman would
undoubtedly choose to
have lived in Pagan Arabia rather than under the system of Islam". (Across the World of Islam by Dr. Samuel M. Zwemer, p. 96).
"The not
uncommon belief that Moslems hold that women either have no souls, or
that their souls perish at the death of the body is no groundless calumny of
the Christian." (Mohammed by
P. de Lacy Johnstone).
"The laws of marriage (in Islam) seem
hopelessly mediaeval, but they have never been abrogated."
'The Place given to
woman in Mohammedan literature is in accord with that to which she is assigned in the Koran and the Traditions. As far
as the unexpurgated Arabian Nights are from King Arthur's Knights of the Round Table, so far is the conception of womanhood in Islam
from that even of
mediaeval womanhood in Western lands." (Across the World of Islam by Dr.
Samuel M. Zwemer, p. 107,111).
POSITION OF WOMAN
IN ISLAM
A COMPARATIVE
STUDY:
We are not at all
surprised at the above letter. Blackmailing Islam with a view to advance their
own cause has been the practice of Christian priests and missionaries for
centuries, and in recent times, the missionaries of other religions also have
tried to imitate them and to repeat what they have said. They have perhaps felt
that the light of their candles can be appreciated only in the darkness of the
mists of misrepresentations of Islam. However, truth must always remain truth
and falsehood nothing else but falsehood and falsehood must ultimately vanish
with the dawn of true knowledge. Let us, therefore, see what the religions of
the adversaries of Islam say and what Islam itself says on the status and
position of woman in human society. Taking first Hinduism, the world's oldest
religion and the religion of those firebrands among Hindus who consider it the
greatest virtue to wipe out Islam by force:
The law of Hinduism is:
"By a girl, by a young woman or even by an aged one nothing must be done
independently, even in her own house." (Manu, V 147).
"In childhood a
female must be subject to her father, in youth to her husband, when her lord is
dead to her sons; a woman must never be independent." (Manu, V 140).
"The legislator
Manu," says a Hindu scholar, Sir. R.G. Bhandarkar, "is equally hard
on women; it must be acknowledged that the estimate of the old Aryan of womanly
nature is not flattering to them generally. They are debarred from reading the
Vedas; any religious rite in which they alone are concerned is directed to be
performed without Vedic Mantras. Even the Bhagvad Gita gives expression to the
general belief that it is only a sinful soul that is born as woman, Vaisya, or
Sudra." (Collected Works, page 461).
Among ancient cultures,
the Greek culture stands next to the Hindu culture. There also the position of
woman was in no way satisfactory. It is possible to point out stray instances
of decent treatment meted out to her in a few very distinguished families, but
it cannot be denied that on the whole her position as a female member of the
family was not very flattering to her. The insult to which the average woman of
Greece was subjected bears ample testimony to this fact. Throughout her life a
Greek woman remained under the subordination of either her parents or her
husband or her sons. Marriage, which is the most important and holy social
institution, was regarded as only a means of breeding citizens, so much so that
it was once ordered in Sparta that the young wives of old or weak men should be
delivered to young men for producing hardy soldiers for the state. The great
dramatist Euripedes puts into the mouth of Medea the remark: "Women are
impotent for good, but clever contrivers of all evils." "For the most
part, however," says Professor Lecky, "the names of virtuous women
scarcely appear in Greek history." (History of European Morals, Vol. II;
p. 307.)
As regards Budhism, the
teaching that Nirvana (salvation) cannot be attained in the company of woman is
sufficiently eloquent to give us a clue to its attitude towards this sex.
"The idea of wed-lock
and its attendant worldly life is opposed to the ultimate end of Budhism —the
annihilation of Desire the striving for which must necessarily involve
celibacy." (U. May Oung: Budhist Law; Part 1, page 2).
To a follower of Budhism,
therefore, according to the celebrated historian Westermarck: "Women are
of all the snares, which the tempter has spread for men, the most dangerous; in
women are embodied all the powers of infatuation which blind the mind of the
world."
Coming now to the verdict
of the Hebrew Scriptures and the attitude of the Jews towards woman. The Divine
curse: "Thy desire shall be to thy husband and he shall rule over thee"
(Genesis, III: 16) reduced her to the position of mere chattel in the house.
"Of the woman came the beginning of sin and through her we all die,"
is a belief which holds poor woman responsible for all the wickedness of man.
Hence her degradation in Jewish society, where she was considered not as a
creature worthy of honour, but as one who could be deservedly subjected to any
amount of insults.
"A woman,"
observes Professor Lecky (History of European Morals, Vol. II, P. 357)
"was regarded as the origin of human ills. She was further represented as
the door of hell, as the mother of all human ills." Indeed it seems
impossible to interpret the uncharitable remarks of the Old Testament in a way
which might be honourable for womanhood.
To come to Christianity:— The
whole structure of the Christian creed is based on the doctrine of the Original
Sin, for which Christianity holds woman responsible: "The woman whom Thou
gayest to be with me, she gave me of the tree and I did eat." (Genesis,
III: 12). Eve first committed the sin and caused the fall of Aiais4, she was
responsible for the sins of God had to send His "only Bes: Christ, to be
crucified and to was: humanity with his blood. This s the Christian faith.
This Biblical statement on
woman could only lead the early Christian to make such "pious"
aspersions of respecting woman can ever feel prose Paul, the Premier Saint of
proclaims :—
"Let the woman learn
in silence jection. But I suffer not a woman to to usurp authority over the
man. silence. For Adam was first formed - And Adam was not deceived but the ing
deceived was in transgression."
"Do you know,"
says St. Tertullian to "that each of you is an Eve; the sentence on this
sex of yours lives in this age: II' must of necessity live too; you are tie
gateway; you are the unsealer of that are the first deserter of the Divine Law;
she who persuaded him whom the devil valiant enough to attack. You des easily
God's image, man. On account of desert, that is, death, even the Son of God to
die." (De Coltu Feminarum).
"Among all men"
says St. Gregory Tha turgus, "I sought for chastity proper to them_ I
found it among none. And, verily, a person find one man chaste among a
thousand, but women never."
According to St. Gregory
of Nazianzum:
"Fierce is the
dragon, and cunning the but woman has the malice of both."
St. John Chrysostom
regards woman as necessary evil, a desirable calamity, a dea fascinator, and a
painted ill."
In the eyes of St. Clement
of Alexandria :—
"Nothing disgraceful
is proper for man, who is endowed with reason; much less for woman.. to whom it
brings shame to reflect of what nature she is.' (Paed., II. 2. 83, 186 p.)
In fact, the 'builders of
the Christian Church. as the early Fathers might be callet all vied in their
denunciation of woman_ She was described as "the organ of the Devil,"
"the foundations of the arms of the Devil, whose voice is the hissing of
the serpents." "a scorpion ever ready to sting, and the lance of ale
demon," "an instrument which the Devil uses to gain possession of our
souls," "the gate of the Devil, the road of iniquity, the sting of
the scor¬pion," "a daughter of falsehood, a sentinel of Hell, the
enemy of peace, (and) of the wild beasts the most dangerous," by St.
Bernard, St. Anthony, St. Bonaventure, St. Cyprian, St. Jerome, and St. John
Damascene respectively.
"It is curious,"
once said an English Muslim, Dr. Khalid William Sheldrake, "that in the
early days of Christianity, when Fathers of the church were hurling anathema at
one another, when senators became bishops and political and theolo¬gical
jugglery was rampant, it was very hotly debated whether women possessed souls.
Some argued that she did not, but was only the vehicle for bringing a soul
(i.e., a man) into this world. Some held that she possessed it, but on the day of
resurrection would appear as a sexless being. The Orthodox Greek Church denied
that woman had a soul, and when numbering the Church including so many souls
i.e., men only, ignoring the existence of women."
At the council of Macon, a
Bishop vehemently asserted that woman did not belong to the human species. (Westermark, p. 663).
A council held at Auxerre
prohibited women to receive the Eucharist in their naked hands. Various decrees
of the Church forbade women from coming near the altar during the celebration
of the Mass, because she was an "unclean thing."
The
"uncleanness" of woman led the Chris¬tian Church to denounce even the
holiness of marriage,—that great social institution of man¬kind. The early
ecclesiastical writers of Chris¬tendom were divided on this problem into two
parties. One party condemned it absolutely (Per¬rone, De Matrimonio. lib. III.
1) , while the other regarded it as lawful on account of the infirmity of human
nature, but nevertheless viewed it with the most emphatic disapproval. (Natalis
Alexander, Hist Eccles., Saec. 11. 18). "Blessed," says St. Gregory,
"is the one who leads a celibate and soils not the Divine image within him
with the filth of concupiscence." "Digamists are are saved,"
observed St. Origen, "in the name of Christ, but by no means are crowned
by him." (Horn., XVII. in Luc.). According to the great scriptural
scholar, St. Jerome, marriage was only "good for those who are afraid to
sleep alone at night."
St. Augustine in his
commentary on Genesis asserts that woman was created only for the purpose of
accomplishing the pre-arranged drama of the Fall of Adam and of meeting the
need of carrying on the race, but he suggests: "how bet¬ter two men could
live and converse together than a man and woman."
"I may define
man," says Principal Donald¬son, (Woman, pp. 181-2), to be a male human
being, and woman to be a female human being
Now what the early
Christians did was to strike the 'male' out of the definition of man and 'human
being' out of the definition of woman. Man was the human being made for the
highest and the noblest purpose: woman was a female mad ,:3 to serve only one.
She was on the earth to influence the heart of man with every evil passion. She
was a fire-ship continually striving to get alongside the male man-of-war to
blow him tin into pieces."
In pre-Islamic Arabia the
position of wonian was in no way better than of her sisters in other countries;
nay her misfortunes were even greater in certain respects. She was nothing more
than an instrument for the satisfaction of the lust of man and for producing
hardy soldiers for defending the honour of the tribe. A false sense of pride
was responsible for the most in¬human custom of femal infanticide. Adultery was
practised unblushingly and the number of wives was regulated only by the
distates of lust.
"A woman had no
rights; she could not inherit_property; her person formed part of the
inheritance which came to the heir of her husband, and he was entitled to marry
her against her will. Hence sprung up the impious marriages of sons with their
step-mothers and others of an even worse character which Mohammed so
peremptorily forbade. Polygamy was universal and quite unrestricted; equally so
was divorce, at least as far as the man was concerned. We read of a certain Omm
Charijah, who has distinguished herself, even amongst the Arabs, by having
forty husbands." (Mohammed and Mohammedanism: Bosworth Smith; p. 82).
Having seen how cruelly
woman had been ex¬ploited by different religious and secular cultures of the
world, it would now be possible for us to understand rightly the noble
achievements of Islam in this direction.
By a single masterly
stroke, Islam removed the stigma of "wickedness" and
"impurity" which the religions of the world had placed upon woman.
Man and woman, it proclaimed had both come from the same essence, and,
therefore, if woman could be said to be wicked, man also should be regarded as
such, or if man had a single spark of nobility in him, woman also should have
it. "Women" declared the Holy Prophet Muhammad, "are the
twinhalves of men."
"O mankind! Be
careful of your duty to your Lord Who created you from a single soul and from
it created its mate and from them twain hath spread abroad a multitude of men
and women. Be careful of your duty towards Allah in Whom you claim (your
rights) of one another, and towards the wombs (that bore you). Lo! Allah hath
been a Watcher over you." (Quran, IV: 1).
"And Allah hath given
you wives or your own kind." ( Quran, XVI: 72).
Islam denounced the
assertion of Christian Fathers that woman did not possess a. soul and that she
would remain a sexless being in future life. It asserted in the words of the
Quran: —
"Enter into Paradise
ye and your wives delighted."
"Whoso doth that
which is right, whether male or female, him or her will We quicken to happy
life."
"Do! men who
surrender unto Allah and women who surrender, and men who believe and women who
believe, and men who obey and women who obey, and men who speak the truth and
women who speak the truth, and men who persevere (in righteousness) and women
who persevere, and men who are humble and women who are humble, and men who
give alms and women who give alms, and men who fast and women who fast, and men
who guard their modesty and women who guard ( their modesty), and men who remember
Allah and women who remember,—Allah hath prepared for them forgiveness and an
ample reward." (Quran, XXXIII . 35).
Islam refuted the Biblical
assertion that woman was first deceived and that she was, therefore,
responsible for the Fall of Adam. It declared in most unambiguous terms that
Adam and Eve were deceived simultaneously and were, therefore, equally
responsible for the deed:—
"And We said: 0 Adam!
Dwell thou and thy wife in the Garden, and eat ye (both) freely (of the fruits)
thereof where ye will but come not nigh this tree lest ye become wrong-doers.
"But Satan caused
them (both) to deflect therefrom and expelled them from the (happy) state in
which they were." (Quran, II: 35, 36).
In contrast to the view of
Christianity: "Neither was Man created for the Woman but the Woman for the
Man," Islam proclaimed: "They (women) are raiment for you (men) and
ye are raiment for them." (Quran, II: 187).
"The Shariah,"
says the late Muhamme Marmaduke Pickthall (The Cultural Side Islam; p. 146),
"has nothing but benevolence f: women; it favours their instruction and
develo ment. But it does not wish or expect then: assimilate themselves to men.
Dr. Harry Camp,: lecturing before the Institute of Hygiene in Lor don lately,
said: 'Women have smaller lungs at fewer blood cells than men. In women the
vita fire does not burn so qicukly. It is thus obviou¬that women are not
adapted like men for a stree uous muscular life. Mentally men and wome differ
in the realm of feeling rather than intellect. Intellectually men and women
stan somewhat upon the same footing. While genius is more common in the male
sex, so also is idiocy." There is therefore spiritual and intellectual
equality, and physical difference, precisely as the Islamic law
recognises."
Islam regards woman spiritually
equal to man as has been shown before. It also regards her intellectually equal
as will be shown shortly. The only difference it makes is in the realm of
physical conditions, and this difference is based on hard facts. It believes in
the principle of the division of labour. It allots the strenuous work and the
rough outdoor life to man and makes him responsible for the maintenance of the
family. It regards home as the first concern of woman. It allots the work of
managing the home and of up¬bringing and training children to woman,—a work
which forms the most important item in the task of nation-building. It exhorts
her to engage her¬self in the cultivation of learning and allows her to
participate, in her own way, in home-industries and in all schemes of national
good. The life of the office and the factory, it considers as uncongenial and
unnatural for her, and is emphatic in its demand that woman should in no case
step into the shoes of man, nor should man encroach upon her sphere of
activity. Both should work in a spirit of harmony, sympathy and love.
Further, there is the
problem of vesting the ultimate authority in the administration of the affairs
of a family. It is a fact that sound administration is impossible without a
unitary policy. In a Muslim family, so far as honour is concerned, Islam has
ordered to honour the mother more than the father, the sister more than the
brother and the daughter more than the son. But. as regards administration,
that is, in the case of the husband and the wife, the final authority is vested
in the husband who is also held responsible for looking to every comfort of the
wife, and who a can not use his power
for doing even slight injury to her, except at the risk of losing the favours
of Allah, 'because the wife is not his subordinate but, in the words of the
Holy Prophet, "the queen of her house." The Quran says: "They
(women) have rights like those of men against them; though men are a degree
above them. Allah is Almighty, All-knowing." (Quran, II: 228).
To Muhammad woman was not
"an organ of the Devil" but Mohsana,—a rocky fortress against Satan.
He gave the most honourable position to mothers when he said: "Paradise
lies under the feet of the mother." (Nasai).
Muhammad enjoined the
acquisition of knowledge equally on woman and man by his order:—
"The acquisition of
knowledge is incumbent upon every Muslim man and every Muslim wo¬man."
(1bn Majah).
The matrimonial union of
man and woman had been viewect with disapproval and had been regarded as
derogatory to man in certain religions. ButMuhammad laid it down once for all: "Marriage
is of my ways and whoever disin¬clines from my ways is not from me (i.e., is
not my follower)." (Bukhari;
Muslim).
"When man has
married, he has completed one half of his religion." (Baihaqi).
He raised the ideal of
wifehood:
"And of His (God's)
signs is this: He created for you helpmates from (among) yourselves that ye
might find solace in them, and He ordained between you love and mercy."
(Quran, XXX : 21).
He inculcated respect for
women in these words: "God commands us to treat women nobly, for they are
our mothers, daughters and aunts."
"The wgrld and all
things in the world are precious but the most precious thing in the world is a
virtuous woman." (Muslim).
He bade his followers to
behave most humanely towards their wives: consort with them (i.e., the wives)
in kindness, for if ye hate them it may happen that ye hate a thing wherein
Allah hath placed much good." (Quran, IV: 19).
"The best of you are
they who behave best to their wives." (Tirmizi).
"Give your wife good
counsel, and do not beat your noble wife like a slave." (Abu Daud).
"The best of you
before God and His creation are those who are best to their own families and I
am the best to my family." (Tirmizi).
"Give her to eat when
ye eat yourself, and clothe her when ye clothe yourself; and do not slap her on
the face nor abuse her nor separate yourself from her in displeasure."
ilbn Maj4/0.
"Admonish your wives
with kindness."
"A Muslim must not
hate his wife, and if he be displeased with one bad quality in her, then let
him be pleased with one that is good."
"The more civil and
kind a Muslim is to his wife the more perfect of faith he is." (Tirmizi).
"Fear God in respect
of women." (Muslim).
"Woman," said
he, "is the queen of her house."
Before the advent of
Muhammad, woman did not enjoy a position independent of man. This She received
from him. Firstly, she was given liberty to choose her husband: "It is not
lawful for a guardian to force an adult virgin into marriage. None, not even
the father nor the sovereign, can lawfully contract woman in marriage who is an
adult and of sound mind without her permission, whether she be a virgin or
not."
Secondly, she was given an
independent posi¬tion as regards the right of owning wealth: "Unto men a
fortune from that 'which they have earned, and unto women a fortune from that
which they have earned. (Envy not one another) : but ask Allah of His bounty.
Lo! Allah is ever Knower of all things." (Quran, IV: 32).
Islam gave the right of
inheritance to the daughter, the wife and the mother, and even to the sister
and other female relatives if a legal necessity arose, and fixed their shares
which are inviolable:—
"Unto the men (of a
family) belongeth a share of that which parents and near kindred leave, and
unto the women a share of that which parents and near kindred leave, whether it
be little or much,—a legal share." (Quran, IV: 7).
Mr. Pierre Crabites, who
was appointed by President Taft in the year 1911,—namely, much before modernism
could create any feminist move¬ment in any Muslim land—to represent the U.S.A.
on the Mixed Tribunals of Cairo, wrote in his article: "Things Mahomet did
for Women," (The Asia, Jan. 1927, New York, U.S.A.) :—
"When all is said and
done, however, nothing astonished me more than to have proof driven home to me
that before 632 of the Christian era, the Prophet of Islam had accomplished
more to safeguard the property rights of the wives of his land than the legislature of Louisiana has yet done for
her who bears my name Mahomet's out
standing contribution to the cause of woman resides in the property rights that
he conferred on the wives of his people. The juridical status of the wife is
exactly the same as that of a husband. The Moslim spouse in so far as her
property is concerned, is as free as a bird. The Law permits her to do with her
financial assets whatever she
please-; without
consulting her consort It is therefore
useless to tell me that the Moslim woman is nothing but a human lacteal
machine, that her soul is not her own, and that man is her lord and master. I
am not dealing with social conditions; I am drawing the picture of the work of
a great legislator, and of the legal edifice constructed by him. But if I were
pressed too hard, I should not fear to face the issue on this score of woman's
effective power. I should begin by challenging the right of any man or woman to
cast the first stone, unless he or she could demons¬trate that the wives of his
or her state enjoy prero¬gatives which measure up to those of the hidden
flowers of Islam. I think that I should be per¬fectly justified in applying
such a rule. I am afraid that it would some-what seriously restrict the quota
of eligibles, but that is not my fault. I should then invite those who thus
passed Ellis island, to come to my court. There I should probably be able to
show them veiled sisters with tattooed arms, rings in their noses and
fly-covered children on their shoulders, without lawyer or friend, Standing
before a judge or counsel and defending their rights with an assurance, a
volu¬bility and a mastery that should be sure to arouse admiration. If this
spectacle should still leave my inquirers unconvinced, I should ask them to
find out, from somebody or through someone in whom they had confidence, just who
first kindled in Egypt the spark that is now threatening Eng¬land, who has kept
the flame aglow, and who are the blindest, the most fearless and the most
intractable foes to any kind of compromise. To such a query there could be but
one answer. It is that, for good or for evil, the Moslim woman is a driving
force which was fashioned by a master¬mind. In a word, rights beget
responsibility, res¬ponsibility engenders leadership and leadership always
asserts itself. It was Mohamet who fixed with unerring discerment the property
rights of the married women of his land. It was he who gave them a legal
personality of their own. He thus put the sceptre within their grasp."
Muhammad regarded chastity
as the most precious thing—as the bedrock upon which alone can be built the
edifice of true character. He therefore deprecated the immodest and promiscuous
intermingling of the sexes, and enjoined on both men and women to make modesty
their watch-word: "Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and be
modest. That is purer for them. Lo! Allah is Aware of what they do.
"And tell the
believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their
orna¬ment only that which is apparent, and to draw their veils over their
bosoms And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of
their adornment. And turn to Allah together, 0 believers, in order that ye may
suc¬ceed." (Quran, XXIV: 30, 31).
These ordinances
promulgated by Islam gave rise to what is known as the harem the reserved ouarter
of the house for females. Many of the anti-Islamic propagandists have painted
it in the blackest colours. But they may well know that:
"The harem,"
according to Von Hammer, "is a sanctuary; it is prohibited to the
stranger, not because women are considered unworthy of confidence, but on
account of the sacredness with which custom and manners invest them."
"So far from the
harem being a prison to the woman," says Davenport, "it is a place of
liberty where the husband himself is treated as an inter¬poler. The moment his
foot passes the threshold, everything reminds him that he is no longer Lord'
and Master; children, servants and all look to till principal lady; in short
she is paramount; when she is in good humour, everything goes on well, and when
she is in a bad humour, nothing goes right."
"I wish," once
observed Dr. Sir Muhammad Iqbal in the English press, "to clear up a few
points regarding the position of our women in the East and how they compare
with the women of the West. In London streets I see a lot which Londoners do
not notice. They are too familiar with the sights to notice subtleties. But
those who see a country after long absence come with a fresh vision.
"What strikes me most
is that the courtesy towards the female sex, for which Europeans were one time famous
is becoming atavistic. In the underground, men do not surrender their seats to
ladies, or do so very seldom. In getting out of the cars they have no thought
of letting the ladies out first. I do not blame them. The women themselves have brought it about. They wanted
emancipation, equal rights with the male sex. The change that has come was
inevitable.
"Perhaps I may here
try to eradicate the totally erroneous notions which are held in Europe about
the Eastern, and first of all, Muslim women, their life and treatment they
receive from men. European woman, according to her own wish, has descended from
the pedestal on which she stood, but the Eastern, the Muslim, woman has
remained the recipient of the same honours as before.
"In Europe they
misunderstand many of our customs, especially the psychology of the veil
(Purdah). The origin of the veil is not men's jealousy, but the feeling that
woman is sacred, so much so that a stranger's eyes should not fall on her. The
meaning of the word 'harem' in Arabic is sacred ground into which no stranger
can enter.
"There are other
reasons for the practice of the veil (Purdah). These are biological in nature;
it is not possible to discuss them here. I can only indicate what lies at the
back of this instituti on. The woman is predominently the creative element in
life, and all creative forces in nature are hidden
"The source and
symbol of the greater res¬pect which Eastern women enjoy is in that veil.
Nothing has happened to diminish the respect in which they were held for
centuries, and the principle of protecting them from approaches of strangers
and from all humiliations has been safely maintained. According to the Holy
Book of Islam there are several rules relating to the segregation of women. The
veil is only of them."
Now about polygamy, which
was, however. not invented by Islam, but was only regulated and subjected to
severe restrictions. Before the advent of Muhammad this institution had been in
vogue among various nations like the Hindus. Jews, Medes, Babylonians,
Assyrians, Persians. ThraPians, Lydians, Pelasgian races. Athenians. Spartans,
Romans, Germans, etc., etc.* Even in his (*The following remarks relating to
the conditions obtaining in the modern world are pregnant with deer; truth:—
"We perceive that, in
the present day, in countries reputed to be the most civilized, and even in the
classes reputed to be the most distinguished, the majority of individuals have
polygamic instincts which they find difficult to resist." (Ch. Letourneau,
The Evolution of Marriage, p¬136. The Contemporary Science Series, London).
"Man lives in a state
of polygamy in the civilized counties in spite of the monogamy enforced by law;
out of a hundred thousand men there would barely be one who could swear upon
his death-bed that he had never known but one single woman during his whole
life." (Max Nordau, Conventional Lies of Our Civilization, p. 301).
own days it was
universally prevalent in Arabia and its adjoining countries. No legislator of
the world had regulated it. It was practised with impunity as the record of the
Jews and other nations shows.
Muhammad was a practical
reformer and the Message-bearer of the All-Wise God. There are certain
occasions in our life when polygamy becomes a necessity. For instance, if the
wife is incurably suffering from sterility and the husband cannot overcome his
fondness for having children, he can either cast off the wife and marry another
or he may have recourse to polygamy, in which case the first wife will not
suffer at all. Or, if the health of the wife is in such a condition as to
render her unfit for acting as wife, except by risking her delicate health, and
the husband finds it impossible to control his passions (which is, however, the
case with most men), he can either throw her away, which will mean a total ruin
to her, or he may keep her for the sake of formality and indulge in
prostitution, which will mean a great injury to the health of the society, or
he may keep her with him, bestow upon her the love of a true Muslim, and marry another.
Again, when there is a surplus of women, as it happens after the wars, human
society can be saved from corruption only by the permission of marrying more
than one wife.
Muhammad was conscious of
this and was not prepared to allow the Muslim society to become like the
post-war society of Europe where "street girls", "other
women", "mistresses" and "war babies" have become
common place things. He, therefore, under Divine Instruction, made monogamy the
ideal of Islam and permitted a very restricted form of polygamy under
exceptional circumstances.
"Marry women of your
choice, two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal
justly (with them), then only one." (Quran, IV : 3.).
"There is," says
the late Dr. Mrs. Annie Besant, the renowned English leader of the Theosophical
Movement, "pretended monogamy in the West, but there is really polygamy
without responsibility; the 'mistress' is cast off when the man is weary of
her, and sinks gradually to be the 'woman of the street', for the first lover
has no responsibility for her future and she is a hundred times worse off than
the sheltered wife and mother in the polygamous home. When we see thousands of
miserable women who crowd the streets of western towns during the night, we
must surely feel that it does not lie within western mouth to reproach Islam
for polygamy. It is better for woman, happier for woman, more respectable for
woman, to live in poylgamy, united to one man only, with the legitimate child
in her arms, and surrounded with respect, than to be seduced, cast out into the
streets—perhaps with an illegiti¬mate child outside the pale of law—unsheltered
and uncared for, to become the victim of any passerby, night after night,
rendered incapable of motherhood, despised of all."
"The Law of the
State", remarks J.E. Clare McFarlane, in his able treatise: The Case for
Polygamy, "based upon the dogma of the church, which makes it criminal
offence for a man to marry more than one wife, by that same provision makes it
illegal for millions of women to have husbands, or to bear children it is untrue that monogamy was advocated by
Jesus Christ
Whether the question is considered socially, or religiously, it
can be demonstrated that polygamy is not contrary to the highest standards of
civilization The suggestion offers a
practical remedy for the western problem of the destitute and unwanted female:
the alternative is continued and increased prostitution, concubinage and
distressing spinsterhood."
The problem of divorce
also was solved by Islam in the best manner. It is not necessary to elaborate
upon it, as to-day it has become a recog¬nised necessity with every people.
Marriage has been made a social contract by Islam, and it can be dissolved
therefore if it proves in any way in¬jurious to the wife or to the husband. And
in fairness of principle, the wife has been given as much right to obtain the
divorce as the husband. But Islam does not recognise the Russian theory of
divorce at will as much as it refuses to coun¬tenance the Church point of view.
The divorce in Islam is possible but not easy, because the restrictions imposed
and the conditions prescribed by Islam are of a serious rature. In fact, it is
unfair to call the Islamic law of divorce as lax, for a Muslim has to remember
the words of the Holy Prophet which are recorded in Abu Daud: "Of all the
permissible things divorce is the most disliked by God."
On the evolution of the
institution of divorce, Ch. Le tourneau observes in his "Evolution of
Marriage," p. 247:—
"Our remarks on the
subject of divorce have led us to nearly uniform conclusions. They all show us
that, however dissimilar may be the countries or the epochs, the union of man
and woman begins with rare exceptions, by the complete slavery of the latter. Then as the ages move on their course we
see societies which become by degrees -civilized, and in proportion to this
advance the condition of the woman improves. At first the man could kill her if
she displeased him: then, the case of adultery apart, he contented himself with
repudiating her, and some rights were even granted to the repudiated woman. At
length her right to seek divorce was recognized."
And this right of the wife
to seek divorce was recognized for the first time in the history of mankind by
Islam!
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MUHAMMAD'S CHARACTER:
"There is something
so tender and womanly, and withal so heroic, about the man, that one is in
peril of finding the judgment unconsciously blinded by the feeling of reverence
and well-nigh love that such a nature inspires. He who, standing alone, braved
for years the hatred of his people, is the same who was never the first to
withdraw his hand from another's clasp; the beloved of children, who never
passed a group of little ones without a smile from his wonderful eyes and kind
word for them, sounding all the kinder in that sweet-toned voice. The frank
friendship, the noble generosity, the dauntless courage and hope of the man,
all tend to melt criticism into admiration.
"He was an enthusiast
in that noblest sense when enthusiasm becomes the salt of the earth, the one
thing that keeps men from rotting whilst they live. Enthusiasm is often used
despitefully, because it is joined to an unworthy cause, or falls upon barren
ground and bears no fruit. So was it not with Mohammad. He was an enthusiast when
enthusiasm was the one thing needed to set the world aflame, and his enthusiasm
was noble for a noble cause. He was one of those happy few who have attained
the supreme joy of making one great truth their very life-spring. He was the
messenger of the one God, and never to his life's end did he forget who he was
or the message which was the marrow of his being. He brought his tidings to his
people with a grand dignity sprung from the consciousness of his high office
together with a most sweet humility."
—Lane Poole.
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