Love to success is a natural phenomenon, from the very
beginning of the creation every person wants that all of his efforts and
attempts should be crowned with success. No one desires to embrace the failure
or defeat, even the defeated person is not ideal for anyone.
People have a lot of desires, strong wishes. They desire to
own every beautiful and precious thing that comes in their ways. Even they want to be a Touchstone
(philosopher's stone) as it converts any metal it touches into gold. Holy
Prophet (SAW) has explained this desire:
"If a son of Adam were to own a valley full of gold he
would desire to have two. Nothing can fill his mouth except the earth. Allah
turns with mercy to him who turns to him in repentance." (Sahih Bukhari:
Hadith No. 6439, pg 1176, Dar ul Kutub al Ilmiya, Bairoot)
No one wants to step forward to endeavour, struggle or even
to move his eyelashes. He does not work hard and leaves everything on its fate.
They believe that a miracle would happen to help them. He forgets the law of success
mentioned in the Holy Quran: "And that man can have nothing but what he
does (good or bad)." (An-Najam:39)
In fact, the majority of people waste their health and
wealth of time. They do not value these two blessings in prosperity and health.
As the Holy Prophet said:
"There are two blessings in which many people incur a
loss, health and free time." (Sahih
Bukhari: Hadith No. 6412, pg 1172, Dar ul Kutub al Ilmiya, Bairoot)
No success (the worldly or the heavenly) is achieved without
moving hand; it is based on the struggle and hard work. As a poet says:
Action is man's mirror, words don't ever count;
In his work appears the extent of his mind;
The Jannah is
surrounded with adversities if any other hardship doesn't befall on him at
least he has to worship Allah, offer prayers, keep fast for Him, to do pilgrims
and other good deeds. These acts of worships are hard work and adversity.
As the Holy Prophet has said
The hell is surrounded with all kinds of desires and
passions while Jannah is surrounded with adversities. (Sahih
Bukhari: Hadith No. 6487, pg 1183, Dar ul Kutub al Ilmiya, Bairoot)
Philosophy of failure:
In individual or collective affairs, the fundamental cause
of failure is not lack of resources. But lacking in decision making, suffering
in reluctance, mental tiredness, inactiveness, and maladjustment are the
qualities that lead to failure. A person who does not make any effort he should
be ready to face failure.
Everyone should keep these golden words of Hadhrat Muaviyah
in his mind: "No one can be wise except the one with experience."
(Sahih Bukhari: pg 1124, Dar ul Kutub al
Ilmiya, Bairoot)
It is the historical fact that a number of times well
equipped & great armies were defeated by the small armies. For example,
Tariq bin Zayad who knew a good beginning is half of the battle. When he
attacked Spain with merely 12 thousands soldier having rusty swords and
ill-equipped weapons but after he burnt the ships to focus on one point that is "do
or die" and without having any intention of running back from the battlefield.
This positive approach fired for him and his army overcame on 1 lac Spanish
soldiers. It was proved "Where there is a will there is a way".
On the contrary Caliph Mustasam who had about 3 lac soldiers
and was invited by Jalal ud din Khwarzmi to attack the Tatars but he did not
dare to attack due to the fear that in case of defeat Tatars will make ruin
Baghdad. And then without a fight, he was defeated and Baghdad was made the
past story as out of 20 hundred thousand only 4 hundred thousand people could
hardly escape their lives. He (Mustasam) was like a person burning in the fire
did not make any effort to escape; he can't blame anyone for his death but to
himself.
A right time to begin something
Here a question arises "What is the right time to begin
something?
The answer is "Now"! It is the most important time
because it is the only time when we have any power.
The much-needed thing is that a person should not daydream
but if he had made up his mind to do work and then with eagerness, passion,
enthusiasm, he should make all his efforts.
Whenever a person intends any task he first tries to draw
the sketch or make planner of the work as a famous proverb: Look before you
leap. If the work is not crying for the spilt milk, he should start the work
and never look back because where there is a will there is a way. But don't
count your chickens before they are hatched.
Results of human effort
Any human effort is not free out of three results. Failure
and success are a massive part of life. Everything that is done can be
interpreted as being successful, half-successful or a failure.
Success: Being successful means that the expectations that
were given were out shined. It means he has achieved the desired result or his
destination.
Half success: Sometimes a person does not achieve the
complete success but still half of the work is done this is also not a total
failure. So he should take it positively as half a loaf is better than none
that means something is better than nothing.
Failure: Sometimes a person totally fails and nothing is
achieved but still, he must not be disappointed.
Every effort of the great people is not ever crowned with
success. And neither the greatness of a man is confined in the success. They
also face failure. Greatness and success is a result of consistency, struggle,
confidence, and the way he handles the obstacles in case of failure.
In simple words "Success does not consist in never
making mistakes but in never making the same one a second time." Holy
Prophet (SAW) has explained:
A believer is not to be stung twice (by something) out of
one and the same hole."(Sahih
Bukhari: Hadith No. 6133, pg 1124, Dar ul Kutub al Ilmiya, Bairoot)
All the great men failed, and they failed often. Think of
Thomas Edison. How many times did he fail to find the right filament for his
light bulb? He faced failure about 300 times but never left the struggle. He
said: "Failure is the opportunity to begin again, more
intelligently." Due to his consistency and hard work he registered 1300
inventions under his belt in his life.
If anyone fails after a lot of hard work he should not be
dis-hearted. Every good action is not fruitful in this worldly life &
temporarily. The result will be heavenly & eternal peace.
And even after a great hard work, enthusiasm, making good
policy and executing it sincerely in the best manner, ones fail he should not
be disappointed as this world is testing place, the reality is this Allah
Almighty does not waste the good deed of good people. As the Holy Quran Says:
Surely Allah wastes not the rewards of Muhsineen. (At-Taubah : 120)
Holy Prophet said:
How wonderful is the case of a believer, there is good for
him in everything and this applies only to a believer. If prosperity gratitude
to Allah and that may be good for him and if adversity befalls him he endures
it patiently and that is better for him. (Sahih Muslim: Hadith No. 2999, pg
1144, Dar ul Kutub al Ilmiya, Bairoot)
Secondly, he comes to know this is a wrong way; he has to
adopt another way by which he can achieve his task.
Failure is often a better teacher in life than success.
Because we learn from our mistakes and hope we won't have to go through them
again. As quoted in Hadith: It is not good for a Muslim to be deceived by one
hole twice.
In short, if a person has great ambitions & goals but
after a great struggle and planning he does not achieve those tasks, still he
will gain many short goals. For example, a person sows a fruity tree if, in the
end, it does not produce the fruit but still, he will not be deprived of shadow
and it will decrease the pollution. Or anyone intends to illuminate the world with
knowledge and wisdom but he fails in doing so still he will light small candles
which will give light in the small place. At least a few persons will be
educated and they will spread his mission. And it will become Sadaqa Jaria for
him.
Conclusion:
Keep going until you shine,
Failures before that moment is totally fine,
The times you fail, it can turn you down,
The times you keep going, it's the opposite of a frown,
You'll reach success if you wait a bit,
To get there, there's no reason to quit.
Post a Comment