Innocence & simplicity is the natural beauty of childhood. And it should not be taken away from the child forcibly. Because without this beauty, the child is no more a child but a mature person! It will be great cruelty on their part.
In my humble opinion, instead of sex education and training, there is an urgent need for physical, mental, social and moral education and training of a child. Keeping Pakistan's geographical, political, cultural, and educational situation I am against children sex education, for that, I have a few reasons.
As I said, let them enjoy childhood. Don't turn childhood into the fifties. Don't involve them in the problems that destroy their personality. Every word has a place & time. It looks better at the right time. Childhood is not the right time for such an education. Rather than this, they should be trained and guided gradually. Sometimes a light expression and training will be enough depending on the situation.
Reasons behind this:
The growth and development of a child are under a system. This growth and development occur gradually. A careful study of the early development of the child reveals the beauty and order in their development. For example, in the early days, children need more mental abilities, so the development of mental abilities is about 80% in his childhood, but on the contrary, the development of reproductive is only twenty per cent.
In a caring environment, sex education is better in some aspects. But openly, it can be harmful to them to be aware of these issues. For example, if one knows the time of his death a year ago, he may not be able to do anything for a whole year. He will die every day out of fear. Before death having this knowledge will be worse for him. It is only right that the curtains should be raised when the time comes.
The biggest disadvantage of sex education is that the child will be overcrowded all the time unnecessarily cautious. Coincidentally, things that are similar to him will turn his mind in the wrong direction.
The responsibility for their safety, however, rests with the adults. Therefore, the work of the elders should be done by the elders. By giving sex education they will not be able to achieve anything other than eradicating innocence of children.
In
the end, I will suggest, Parents, need to give their children the
freedom that they can talk to them everything, freely without any
hesitation. Especially if there occur any incident outside the boundary
of the house, do not ignore it at all. Listen to them carefully, if
someone is harassing him, try to find out the cause. And try to find out
the nature of the incident. So that no criminal minded or criminal
person make them his victim, or blackmail them.
May Allah the Almighty protect all the flowers (children) from the bad intentions of wicked people.
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